一，如果找不到坚持下去的理由，那就找一个重新开始的理由，生活本来就这么简单。只需要一点点勇气，你就可以把你的生活转个身，重新开始。生命太短，没有时间留给遗憾，若不是终点，请微笑一直向前。年轻时，你做了一个决定，要把自己的生命献给爱情。后来你没死，青春替你抵了命。
If you can"t find a reason to persevere, find a reason to start afresh. Life is so simple. With a little courage, you can turn your life around and start over. Life is too short to leave time for regret. If it"s not the end, please keep smiling. When you were young, you made a decision to devote your life to love. Later, you did not die. Youth killed you.
二、路程中会遇到很多很多麻烦困难，我们需要承受，更要去解决，俞敏洪说过一句话：坚持下去，不是我们有足够的坚强，而是我们已经无法选择。别急，当一个人没用的时候，那就是那个人还没到有用的时候，況且，我们来到这个世界又不是只为了让自己有用。不卑不亢，落落大方，但行好事，莫问前程。During the journey, we will encounter a lot of troubles and difficulties, we need to bear, but also to solve them. Yu Minhong said that persevering is not that we are strong enough, but that we have no choice. Don"t worry, when a person is useless, that"s when that person is not useful. Besides, we don"t come to the world just to be useful for ourselves. Not humble, not arrogant, generous, but good deeds, do not ask about the future.
三、 每个人的心里，都藏着一个了不起的自己，只要你不颓废，不消极，一直悄悄酝酿着乐观，培养着豁达，坚持着善良，只要在路上，就没有到达不了的远方！宁缺毋滥定会得偿所愿，饥不择食必将悔不当初，对爱情最好还是保持点儿洁癖，不要随便开始，不要急着妥协。Everyone"s heart, there is a great oneself, as long as you do not decadent, not negative, has been quietly brewing optimism, cultivating open-minded, adhere to goodness, as long as on the road, there is no distance that can not be reached! Better lack than abuse, you will get what you want, hunger or choosing what you eat, you will regret it. It"s better to keep a little tidy about love. Don"t start at random, don"t rush to compromise.
四、 你本来很爱一个人，可是，当所有的失望累积到了一个临界点，连爱也再提不起劲了。我仅剩的思维全部感受着悲伤，并不能带给我欢乐与幸福的你，请不要在我的黑暗世界中挣扎，乐观向上，坚忍不拔的高尚品格，顽强拼搏，永不言败的奋斗精神，热爱生活，乐于回报社会的宽广胸怀，立足本职，爱岗敬业的优秀品质。You loved someone very much, but when all the disappointments accumulated to a critical point, even love could not be raised. The only thoughts I have left are sad, which can not bring me joy and happiness. Please don"t struggle in my dark world, be optimistic, perseverant, noble character, tenacious struggle, never-say-die spirit of struggle, love life, be willing to repay the broad mind of society, based on their own duties, love the excellent quality of dedication.
五、大概只有遇到特别喜欢的人，才能治好我的三分钟热度，没有耐心和喜新厌旧的毛病吧。有些事藏在心里是莫大的委屈；话到嘴边又觉得无足挂齿不值一提！所有回不去的良辰美景，都是举世无双的好时光，余生愿你常欢笑，别流泪，也别想他。别以为你把心掏出来，人家就会领情，也别想着你对人家好，人家就会对你好，很多时候，只不过是你的自作多情，有时候钱要花在刀刃上，爱也一样。Perhaps only when I meet someone who I particularly like can I cure my three-minute fever, lack of patience and dislike of the new and the old. Some things hide in the heart is a great grievance; words to the mouth and feel that it is not worth mentioning! All the beautiful moments that can"t be returned are unparalleled good times in the world. For the rest of your life, I hope you will always laugh, don"t cry, and don"t miss him. Don"t think that if you pull out your heart, people will appreciate you. Don"t think that if you treat them well, they will treat you well. Many times, it"s just your self-indulgence. Sometimes money will be spent on the edge of the knife, and so will love.
六、别去试探人心，它会让你失望，更会让你绝望。有些事知道了就好，不必多说；有些人认识了就好，不必深交。做好自己该做的，有爱或无爱，都安然对待；当你生活不顺心的时候，不要慌，看看你的钱包和存款，哭出来就好了。不在乎你的人才会让你等，不会主动，更不会把你真正的放在心上，所有的自我，所有的我行我素，不是因为他的性格使然，而是因为他根本不在乎你，也没那么喜欢你。Don"t try to test people"s hearts. It will disappoint you and make you desperate. If you know something, you don"t need to say much; if you know something, you don"t need to know it. Do what you have to do, love or no love, be safe; when your life is not going well, don"t panic, look at your wallet and savings, and cry out. The person who doesn"t care about you will let you wait, will not take the initiative, will not really care about you, all the ego, all the self-indulgence, not because of his personality, but because he doesn"t care about you at all and doesn"t like you so much.
七、我用时间证明了我爱你，你却用时间证明了我是个傻子。她的眼睛像一朵无法采撷的青莲色的长春花，成功都有彼岸，要看会不会抵达；心灵都会带伤，就看能不能治愈。时光煮雨，岁月无痕；活在当下，珍惜今天！世间感情，犹如纷纷落叶，自由落在手心的才是最珍贵的。释家之随缘，道家之自然，不外如是。I have used time to prove that I love you, but you have used time to prove that I am a fool. Her eyes are like a green lotus-colored Changchun flower that can not be picked. Success lies on the other side, depending on whether it will arrive or not; the soul will be injured, depending on whether it can be cured. Time cooks rain, time bears no trace; live in the present, cherish today! Feelings in the world are like leaves falling one after another. Freedom falls on the palm of the hand is the most precious. This is the case with Buddhism and Taoism.
八、现在不玩命，将来命玩你。比你差的人还没放弃，比你强的人仍在努力，你有什么资格说我无能为力？混就混出个名堂，学就学出个模样。翻脸不如翻身，生气不如争气。也别假装很努力，毕竟结果不会陪你演戏。Don"t play with your life now, play with your life in the future. People worse than you haven"t given up. People better than you are still working hard. What qualifications do you have to say that I can"t do anything? If you mix it up, you will learn how to look. Turning over is better than turning over. Anger is better than fighting for it. Don"t pretend to work hard, after all, the result won"t accompany you.
九、我有功于人不可念，而过则不可不念；人有恩于我不可忘，而怨则不可不忘。 处世让一步为高，退步即进步的张本；待人宽一分是福，利人实利己的根基。 处世不必邀功，无过便是功；与人不求感德，无怨便是德。 路径窄处，留一步与人行；滋味浓的，减三分让人食。后来，我渐渐学会接受而不是付出，就算遇见再心动的人也摇摇头说算了。失望攒够了就放手，不打扰是我最后的温柔。I owe a great deal to others, but I can"t forget what I have done; I can"t forget what I owe to others, but I can"t forget what I complain about. One step in life is a step higher, and one step backward is Zhang Ben"s progress; one point of leniency is the foundation of happiness and self-interest. There is no need to invite merit in life, but merit is merit without fault, and virtue is virtue without complaint. Narrow path, leave a step and pedestrians; strong taste, reduce three points for people to eat. Later, I gradually learned to accept rather than pay, even if I met someone who was moved again, I shook my head and said yes. Let go of disappointment when you have saved enough. It"s my last gentleness not to disturb.
十、爱过后，也许我们是有很多时候，都很怀念，想念，一个人的时候，因为一个人可以做很多两个人不能做的事，可是就因为我们选择了爱，所以，也自然而然的失去了很多，没有了很多。对自己承诺：我要强大到任何事情都无法破坏我内心的平和。人活着就应该像齐天大圣，疯过，爱过，恨过，闯过，拼过，努力过，但从没有退缩害怕过。没人挡风遮雨，就自己撑起一片天。别总自顾可怜，谁活着都挺难。After love, maybe we have a lot of times, very miss, miss, when a person, because one person can do many things that two people can not do, but because we choose love, so naturally lost a lot, not a lot. Commitment to myself: I want to be strong enough that nothing can destroy my inner peace. People should live like Qitian Dasheng, crazy, loved, hated, rushed through, struggled, but never flinched and afraid. No one shelters from the wind and rain, so they prop up a day by themselves. Don"t always pity yourself. It"s hard for anyone to live.
十一、人还是要学会拒绝的吧，若从一开始我就不那么迁就他们，只要能过去就都忍了，也不至于让他们对我的付出当做理所当然，也不会发展成现在这种局面。想想自己，还真是可悲。老公软弱，对父母敢怒不敢言，不管对与错，什么话都不敢说。什么都得我自己争取，偶尔还要落得个里外不是人。人生在世，谁都不易。再想想，老公的性格应该是从小养成，被父母非打即骂，一点地位没有。而我既然选择了和他在一起，就会包容他的一切，建立起他的自尊、自信，学会理解他的难处。借用一句话：婚姻不易，且行且珍惜。坚持吧，傻姑娘！People still have to learn to refuse. If I had not been so accommodative to them from the beginning, I would have tolerated them as long as I could, and would not have taken their efforts for granted, nor would it have developed into the present situation. It"s sad to think about yourself. Husband is weak, dare not say angry to parents, no matter right or wrong, what words dare not say. Everything has to be fought for by myself, and occasionally it"s not a human being. Life is not easy for anyone. Think again, the husband"s personality should be nurtured from an early age, by parents not beaten or scolded, no status. Now that I choose to be with him, I will embrace all of him, build up his self-esteem and self-confidence, and learn to understand his difficulties. To borrow a sentence: Marriage is not easy, and can be cherished. Hold on, silly girl!
十二、人生，要有多少计较，就有多少烦恼；生活与生命的分别在于：前者只是一种我们经历过的无法逃避的、在有一天终于都会过去的分分秒秒，而后者却是我们执着的，不断想要珍惜地记起来的那些人和事的总和。这世上，时光会改变太多的事情，但是总有一些人和一些事，只要你相信，那么就永远不会改变。The difference between life and life lies in that the former is only a kind of inescapable minute which we have experienced and will pass at last one day, while the latter is the sum of those people and things that we persist in remembering and cherishing. In this world, time can change too many things, but there are always some people and some things, as long as you believe, then it will never change.
十三、今天是你往后日子里最年轻的一天，因为有明天，今天永远只是起跑线。记住一句话：越努力，越幸运。把爱情看得太神圣，忘了我们都是血肉之躯。改变不了的事就别太在意，留不住的人就试着学会放弃，受了伤的心就尽力自愈，除了生死，都是小事，别为难自己。Today is your youngest day in the future, because tomorrow, today will always be the starting line. Remember a word: the harder you work, the luckier you will be. Love is too sacred to forget that we are all flesh and blood. Don"t pay too much attention to things that can"t be changed. People who can"t stay try to learn to give up. They try their best to heal themselves when they are hurt. Besides life and death, they are all trivial matters. Don"t embarrass themselves.
十四、你是我今生未唱完的歌，唱不到结局，却又难以割舍。有时候会讨厌不甘平庸却又不好好努力的自己，觉得自己不够好，羡慕别人闪闪发光，但其实大多人都是普通的，只是别人的付出你没看到。You are the song that I have not finished in my life. You can"t sing the end, but it"s hard to give up. Sometimes I hate myself who is not willing to be mediocre but doesn"t work hard enough. I feel that I am not good enough and admire other people"s shining, but in fact most people are ordinary, just others"efforts you don"t see.
