断了男人的手，给女人带来的伤害，远远超出人们的想象。甚至不同的女人在遇到不合意的时候，都会做出许多失去理智的事情。
Men"s disconnection has brought harm to women far beyond people"s imagination. Even different women will do a lot of irrational things in the face of disconnection.
如果有机会见到男人或者有机会和男人交流，就不会放过。因此又回到了“困惑、追问”阶段。
As long as you have the opportunity to meet or communicate with men, you will not miss it. So as to return to the stage of "confusion and questioning".
最好的关系，就是双方都站在精神对等的高度上，不要让别人偶尔"宠爱"。
The best relationship is that both sides look at each other at the height of spiritual equivalence, rather than letting others occasionally "spoil".
人生真谛汇成一句话，读懂人并非简单：
The true meaning of life is summed up in one sentence. People who understand it are not simple:
无法放下，也无法忘记，是我一直在自己的执念中为自己画了一个无法逃脱的牢。
I can neither let go nor forget that I have drawn an inescapable prison for myself in my obsession.
不能道德的绑架别人为我们付出；我们，也不能真正做到为他人无私。
We should not morally kidnap others to pay for us; We can"t really be selfless for others.
尤其在人与人之间，人们对婚恋的扭曲、对自己、社会的婚恋形象的扭曲，早已病入膏肓…
Especially between people, people"s distortion of marriage and love, their own and social marriage and love image have long been terminally ill
女人如果清醒了，应该知道如何给予娘家适当的帮助，但决不能毫无自知之明地践踏男人的底线为自己娘家填坑，对男人漠不关心。
If a woman is sober, she should know how to give appropriate help to her mother"s family, but she must not trample on a man"s bottom line without knowing it and fill a hole for her mother"s family, regardless of the man"s feelings.
