现在的人动不动就说要好好地爱自己，可是你知道怎么样去爱自己呢？好好地爱自己，并不是为了自己的虚荣心去透支信用卡买一些自己无力承担的名牌，而是为了成为更好的自己而努力奋斗让自己变得优秀起来，有一句话说得好：“你的能力得要配得上你的虚荣心才行”，如果配不上的话，还是老老实实地努力吧！那样不是爱自己，一味地透支只会毁了你自己！
Nowadays people always say to love themselves well, but do you know how to love yourself? Good love oneself, is not to his own vanity to a credit card to buy some cannot afford famous brand,
but in order to be better myself and strive to become outstanding, there"s a phrase well said: "your ability to deserve you vanity", if you don"t deserve, still honestly efforts! That is not love yourself, blindly overdraw will only destroy yourself!
其实这个世界是相对公平的，不要总是去抱怨为什么你自己还总是找不到对象，你有没有想过自身的问题，自己本身不咋地，还对别人挑三拣四，你应该反问一下自己你配吗？
In fact, this world is relatively fair, don"t always complain why you still can"t find an object, have you ever thought of their own problems, their own not zha, but also to others pick and choose four, you should ask yourself you deserve?
在本该学习奋斗的年纪，就不要总是想着安逸了，你自己想一想，现在安逸两三年，以后就可能痛苦一辈子！你现在租房住，你不想以后还租房住吧，你要是一直单身也就算了，如果你成家立业了，你要你的家人孩子都跟着你颠沛流离吗？清醒点！
In the age of study and struggle, do not always think about ease, you think about yourself, now easy two or three years, the future may be painful for a lifetime! If you live in a rented house,
you don"t want to live in a rented house in the future. If you stay single, don"t worry. If you get married and have a career, do you want your family and children to move with you? Wake up and smell the coffee!
虽然出生不如别人，但是你可以尽自己最大的努力去改变，你总不能因为出生不如别人所以就说服自己不去努力了吧，我拜托你想想，现在的你不努力，以后你的孩子就会面临跟你一样的现状！不能拥有好的教育环境，一辈子又总是在羡慕别人中度过。这样想想你还能心安理得地关掉闹钟继续睡吗？
Although you were born worse than others, you can try your best to change. You can"t convince yourself not to try because you were born worse than others. I beg you to think that if you don"t work hard now,
your children will face the same situation as you in the future! Can not have a good educational environment, life is always spent in the envy of others. Think about it this way: Will you feel comfortable enough to turn off the alarm and go back to sleep?
既然已经决定离开家出来打拼了，那么就要好好努力呀，不然你出来的意义是什么呢？难道就为了多看一看别人的成功，为别人的成功鼓掌吗？
Since you have decided to leave home to fight, then you should work hard, otherwise what is the meaning of your coming out? Just to see the success of others, applaud the success of others?
人生最可怕的事情就是，当你的容颜变老，当你的年龄增加，可是你却依然是当初那个一事无成的你，因为本该在奋斗的年纪你选择了安逸，所以后来，你只能眼睁睁地看着自己变老，依然过不去自己想要的生活，这真是可怕啊！
Life is the most terrible thing is, when you face grow old, as you age, but you still is at the beginning that nothing of you, because of should have been in the struggle of age you chose at ease, so later, when you watched our age, still can not pass the life that you want to, it was terrible!
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