妈妈说:“如果你越来越冷漠,你以为你成长了,但其实没有。长大应该是变得温柔,对全世界都温柔。”
My mother said, "If you become more and more indifferent, you think you have grown up, but in fact you have not. Growing up should be gentle, gentle to the whole world. "
在经历过伤害之后, 我们对别人流露出来的情绪也变得格外敏感 ,感受到一丁点善意时就想加倍回报, 感受到一丝不耐烦的情绪就立刻躲避掉 ,没办法做到一如既往的勇敢 ,只想努力寻求到能够治愈自己的良药 ,被温柔而小心地对待。
After experiencing injuries, we have become especially sensitive to the emotions revealed by others. When we feel a little kindness, we want to double our reward. When we feel a little impatience, we immediately avoid it. We cannot be brave as before. We just want to try to find a good medicine to cure ourselves. We are treated gently and carefully.
“年轻和幼稚都会造成同样的弱点:缺乏耐性。无论做什么事,都想马上看到结果。人生就是一连串的等待,这样的教训往往得活到中年才能体会。”
"Youth and immaturity both cause the same weakness: lack of patience. No matter what you do, you want to see the result immediately. Life is a series of waiting, and such lessons are often learned only in middle age. "
“一直觉得这世上的告别仪式有很多,比如一杯酒,一场旅行,一首歌,或是车站前的一场大哭。可是后来才知道,人生中大部分的告别是悄无声息的,甚至很多年后才恍然大悟,原来那天的相见,竟已是最后一面。此后即便不是隔山隔水,也没有再次重逢。”
"I always think there are many farewell ceremonies in this world, such as a glass of wine, a trip, a song, or a cry in front of the station. However, it was not until later that I realized that most of the farewells in my life were silent. It took me many years to realize that the meeting on that day was the last one. Since then, if not across the mountain and across the water, they have not met again. "
“我对实物厌倦得太快,而你是我最大的例外。”
"I am tired of things too fast, and you are my biggest exception."
有一首歌叫《后来》,可听它的人总想从前。
There is a song called "Later"Those who listen to it always think of the past.
我心中有一簇迎着烈日而生的花,比一切美酒都要芬芳。滚烫的馨香,漫过稻草人的胸膛,草扎根的精神,从此万寿无疆。
——priest《默读》
I have a bunch of flowers in my heart that grow in the hot sun.More fragrant than any good wine.Hot fragrance, overflow scarecrow"s chest,The spirit of taking root in grass will live forever.-Priest"s Silent Reading
“树枝想去撕裂天空,却只戳了几个微小的窟窿,它透出天外的光亮,人们把它叫做月亮和星星。”
——顾城《星月的由来》
"branches want to tear the sky,Only a few tiny holes were poked,It gives out light from the sky,People call it moon and stars. "
-Gu Cheng"s Origin of Stars and Moon
少年依旧是那个白衬衫的少年,夏天也是个很平凡的夏天,有人终将留在那本发黄的回忆录里仰望黑夜,也有人似是而非的新生活里致死怀念。
The young man is still the young man with white shirt. Summer is also a very ordinary summer. Some people will stay in the yellow memoir and look up at the night, while others will die and miss in their specious new life.
去小卖部买可乐, 发现没有可乐了, 随手拿了一个牛奶 ,可是当结账时发现了可乐 ,但是我已经不想换了。
I went to the grocery store to buy coke and found that there was no coke. I took a bottle of milk with me, but when I checked out, I found coke, but I didn"t want to change it any more.
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