一、我既没有愁苦到足以成为诗人，又没有冷漠到像个哲学家。但我清醒到足以成为一个废人。世上最傻的就是暗恋，比暗恋更傻的就是互相暗恋。I am neither sad enough to be a poet nor indifferent enough to be a philosopher. But I"m sober enough to be an invalid. The silliest thing in the world is to have a secret love. The silliest thing is to have a secret love with each other.
二、有时候，你明明知道那不是你的，却想往强求，或可能出于盲目自信，或过于相信精诚所至、金石为开，结果不断地努力，却遭来不断的挫折。有的靠缘分，有的靠机遇，有的得需要人们能以看山看水的心情来欣赏，不是自己的不强求，无法得到的就放弃。sometimes, you know it"s not yours, but you want to force, or may be out of blind self-confidence, or too much faith in sincerity, stone to open, the results of continuous efforts, but suffer constant setbacks. Some depend on fate, some depend on opportunities, some need people to see the mountains and waters to appreciate the mood, not their own demand, can not get to give up.
三、我之前没有爱过别人，你是第一个，我怕我做得不好，让你觉得爱情不过如此。你的微笑，是我这辈子见过最美的景色，我想收藏这样的风景一辈子。I haven"t loved anyone before. You are the first one. I"m afraid I didn"t do well, which makes you feel that love is just like this. Your smile is the most beautiful scenery I have ever seen in my life. I want to collect such scenery all my life.
四、以前没有说出口，以后也不会了，但是现在想起那时候的自己，还是会觉得幼稚，所以那个人记着记着也就模糊了，被另一个人的影子所替代。didn"t say it before and will never say it again. But now, when I think of myself at that time, I still feel childish, so that person"s memory is blurred and replaced by another person"s shadow.
五、想成为更好的自己，就去见识更大的世界，认识更多奇妙的人，汲取更广泛的知识。你不需要别人过多的称赞，因为你自己知道自己有多好。内心的强大，永远胜过外表的浮华。wants to be a better person, to see the bigger world, to know more wonderful people, to learn more knowledge. You don"t need too much praise because you know how good you are. The inner strength is always better than the outer flamboyance.
六、心灵就象容器，时间长了会有沉渣，只有定期清理，删除垃圾，刷新自己，才会精力充沛，迎新每天的太阳冉冉升起。 在你眼里，我始终不够好，原来，你就是没爱过我而已。soul is like a container, there will be sediment for a long time, only regular cleaning, removal of garbage, refresh themselves, will be energetic, greet the rising sun every day. In your eyes, I"m always not good enough, originally, you just don"t love me.
七、人，可以真实地活着，但不要太认真。水至清则无鱼，人至察则无徒。完美主义者最大的悲哀，就是活的不真实。现实才是最真的真实。在真实的世界里，有苦有乐，有酸有甜。人活着最大的乐趣，就是从痛苦中把快乐找出来。什么都追求好，是一种积极的思想，却不是最好的活法。难得糊涂，你随和，生活才随和。people can really live, but don"t take it too seriously. When water is clean, there are no fish, but when people are aware, there are no fools. The greatest tragedy of perfectionists is that they live unrealistically. Reality is the truest truth. In the real world, there are joys and sorrows, sour and sweet. The greatest pleasure in living is to find pleasure in pain. To pursue everything well is a positive thought, but not the best way to live. Rarely confused, you easy-going, easy-going life.
八、幸福是一点一点积累的，把人生当旅程的人，遇到的永远是风景，让我们一起撑一支岁月的长篙，将身心流放到万水千山中，拥一份缱绻的柔情，以一颗纯净的心，去阅读红尘路上的风景，去守候自己生命的花期。happiness is accumulated bit by bit. People who take life as a journey always encounter scenery. Let"s support a long pole of years, put our body and mind into thousands of rivers and mountains, hold a tender feeling, read the scenery on the Red Dust Road with a pure heart, and wait for the blossom of their lives. Good morning!
九、我在不断地追求肉体的自由、精神的自由、心灵的自由，与任何企图控制我肉体、精神、心灵自由的势力展开了生死决斗。人生，没有永远的伤痛，再深的痛，在切之时，伤口总会痊愈。人生，没有过不去的坎，你不可以坐在坎边等它消失，你只能想办法穿过它。人生，没有永远的爱情，没有结局的感情，总要结束；不能拥有的人，总会忘记。I am constantly pursuing the freedom of body, spirit and soul. I have launched a life-and-death duel with any force that tries to control my freedom of body, spirit and soul. Life, there is no eternal pain, and then deep pain, when cut, the wound will always heal. Life, there is no impossible ridge, you can not sit by the ridge and wait for it to disappear, you can only find ways to cross it. Life, there is no eternal love, no ending feelings, always end; people who can not have, always forget. As a woman,
十、作为女性，先要争取经济独立，然后才有资格谈到应该争取什么。十五至二十五岁，争取读书及旅游的机会；二十五至三十五，努力工作，继续进修，组织家庭开始储蓄；三十五岁以后，将工作变为事业，加倍争取学习，一定要拥有若干资产防身。must strive for economic independence before it is qualified to talk about what it should strive for. Fifteen to twenty-five years old, strive for opportunities to study and travel; twenty-five to thirty-five, work hard, continue to study, organize families to start saving; after thirty-five years old, turn work into a career, double the struggle for learning, must have a number of assets to defend themselves.
十一、半亩微凉，终也是苦了年岁，负了等待……做到内心宁静，不是避开车马喧嚣，而是在心中修篱种菊！half Mu slightly cool, but also bitter years, negative waiting…… To be quiet inside is not to avoid the noise of driving, but to plant chrysanthemum in the heart.
十二、读书到最后，是为了让我们更宽容地去理解这个世界有多复杂。—— 梁文道。脆弱的缘，彼此的真，如此的坎坷，相信一种懂得，错过一份风景，爱慕一个人的等，等来一个人的心门，是来世的牵挂，是今生的缘，彼此的伤痕。read to the end in order to make us more tolerant to understand how complex the world is. —— Liang Wendao. Fragile fate, each other"s true, so rough, I believe that a kind of understanding, miss a landscape, love a person, etc., wait for a person"s heart, is the concern of the world, is the fate of this life, each other"s scars.
十三、人啊，不要想太多，胡思乱想心受罪，痴心妄想人受累。生命太短，时间太贵，容不得你随意浪费。不用去模仿别人，学做他人，而是在优秀的感召下做最好的自己。因为我们都是独一无二的，经历了一次又一次热血澎湃的打拼后，要试着沉淀心绪，向内而求，活出一个自己的真正人生。people, don"t think too much, fantasy suffers, delusion suffers. Life is too short and time is too expensive to allow you to waste it at will. Don"t imitate others, learn to be others, but be the best self inspired by excellence. Because we are all unique, after many ardent struggles, we should try to settle down our mood, seek inward, and live a real life of our own.
十四、别害怕无话可谈，也别指望无话不谈，我们彼此喜欢，那么即使一言不发，还能感到自然和心安。因为太过爱你，所以有时甚至失去自我，我故意气你，只是想看看你是否真的在意我，你有多爱我。可在如今看来，那显得多么幼稚，如果时间能倒流，我会全心全意相信你，全心全意爱着你，全心全意珍惜你。should not be afraid to have nothing to talk about, nor should it expect nothing to talk about. We like each other, so even if we don"t say a word, we can feel natural and peaceful. Because I love you too much, sometimes I even lose myself. I just want to see if you really care about me and how much you love me. But now it seems so naive. If time can go back, I will believe you with all my heart, love you with all my heart and cherish you with all my heart.
十五、有那么一个人，在那段时间里，总出现在梦里。梦里 你是我的主角，或喜，或悲然醒来后，一切只是梦而已。你离我的生活很远就这样 ，站在远处看着你 ，笑了问自己，为什么你会出现在我梦里，是你的错还是我的错。has such a person, at that time, always appear in the dream. In the dream you are my protagonist, or happy, or sad wake up, everything is just a dream. You are so far away from my life. Standing in the distance, looking at you, smiling and asking yourself why you would appear in my dream, is it your fault or mine?
十六、能不能找到好工作，会不会被人欣赏，工资是否有可能提高，如何不被埋没在一群人之中，今后的日子值不值得期待，人生到底有没有突破口……种种问题似乎闭上眼就如洪般袭来。焦虑不安左思右想，大量时间都貌似花在了做计划上。总会有个人来告诉你：只要你保证自己能越来越好，一切都会随之而来。Can you find a good job, will be appreciated, whether wages are likely to rise, how not to be buried in a group of people, the future is not worth looking forward to, whether there is a breakthrough in life in the end…… All sorts of problems seem to come like a flood with closed eyes. Anxious and anxious, a lot of time seems to be spent on planning. Someone will tell you that everything will follow as long as you make sure you are getting better and better.
十七、如果你的出现是上天打下来的一道光，那么他就是从远方漂洋过海刮来的一阵风，带着他所拂过的大海和山川，鲜花和草地光很夺目很耀眼，但是风却吹到了我的心田，况且你早已经把我的眼睛刺痛了。If your appearance is a light from heaven, then he is a gust of wind from a distant ocean across the sea, with the sea and mountains he brushed, flowers and grass are very dazzling and dazzling, but the wind has blown into my heart, and you have already pricked my eyes.
十八、友善确实是种病，病就病在企图取悦所有人。过度友善的人，害怕拒绝，因为他们看来，拒绝别人同样是件伤面子的事。把面子看得比天还大，往往源于内心的弱小。事事害怕让别人失望，也是一种自卑。生活总有点欺软怕硬。一个完全不懂拒绝的人，也不可能赢得真正的尊重。friendliness is really a disease, which is trying to please everyone. Over-friendly people are afraid to refuse, because they think it is also a shame to refuse others. Looking at face as bigger than heaven often comes from inner weakness. Fear of disappointing others is also an inferiority complex. Life is always a bit of a bully. A person who knows nothing about rejection can"t win real respect.
