一、常以为人是一种容器，盛着快乐，盛着悲哀。但人不是容器，人是导管，快乐流过，悲哀流过，导管只是导管。各种快乐悲哀流过流过，一直到死，导管才空了。疯子就是导管的淤塞和破裂。It is often thought that man is a container, full of happiness and sadness. But man is not a container, man is a catheter, happy flow, sad flow, catheter is only a catheter. All kinds of joys and sorrows flow through, until death, the catheter is empty. A madman is a blockage and rupture of a catheter.
二、原来，曾经亲密无间的两个人，会连路人都不如；原来，如此关心爱护的两个人，也会彻底地失去联系。其实，我们每个人如果能做好自己，并且尽职尽责的用自己的肩膀扛起自己所能抗，相信，我们地生活一定会越来愈好。
Originally, the two people who were once intimate would be worse than the passers-by. Originally, the two people who cared so much for and cared for would lose contact completely. In fact, if each of us can do a good job of ourselves, and conscientiously carry their own shoulders with their ability to resist, I believe that our life will be better and better.
三、在人生这条路上，只有奋斗才能带给自己安全感。不要轻易把梦想寄托在某个人身上，也不要太在乎身旁的一些耳语，因为未来属于自己，只有自己才能给自己最大的安全感。
on the road of life, only struggle can bring you a sense of security. Don"t easily place your dreams on someone, and don"t care too much about the whispers around you, because the future belongs to you, only you can give yourself the greatest sense of security.
四、原来，曾经亲密无间的两个人，会连路人都不如；原来，如此关心爱护的两个人，也会彻底地失去联系。我们都不擅长表达，以至于我们习惯了揣测。去肯定，去否定，反反复复，后来我们就变得敏感而脆弱。
Originally, the two people who were once intimate would be worse than the passers-by; originally, the two people who cared so much for and cared for would lose contact completely. We are not good at expressing, so that we are accustomed to speculation. To affirm, to deny, to repeat, and then we become sensitive and fragile.
五、对的人晚一点再遇见吧，这样等我们都足够成熟了，就再也不会莫名其妙地分开了。不合适的人就不要继续相处了！你以为只是开几句玩笑、喝两杯咖啡而已，无伤大雅。人哪，总是相处的动物，明明无法有结果、却又离不开的人，真如绵衣藏针，暗自叫苦。我们总是被毫无防备的人，伤了一生！
meet the right person later, so that when we are mature enough, we will never inexplicably separate again. The unsuitable people will not continue to get along with each other! You think it"s just a joke and two cups of coffee. It"s harmless. Man, the animals that always get along with, the people who can"t get results but can"t get away from them, are really like cotton-padded clothes hiding needles and crying bitterly. We are always injured by unsuspecting people for a lifetime!
六、众里寻他千百度，蓦然回首，那人却在，灯火阑珊处。我们总是在错误的时间，错误的地点，懵懵然就爱上那个人，然后，不得不用尽一生，遗忘。如果放弃真那么容易，谁会选择纠缠，道理谁都懂，可是真正喜欢的人，怎么能那么轻易的放手。
he was searching for thousands of Baidu in the crowd, suddenly looking back, but the man was in the lamp. We always fall in love with that person at the wrong time, in the wrong place, and then we have to spend all our lives and forget. If it is so easy to give up, who will choose to entanglement, the truth is understood by everyone, but really like people, how can it be so easy to let go.
七、自己不尊重自己的爱，不要祈求别人能爱你爱的那么认真；卑微懦弱是换不来爱情的，每个人，都应该有自己的原则和底线，无论做什么都要懂得适可而止。
八、成长就是，从前你难过的时候，油盐不进，茶饭不思，现在能一边流泪一边去厨房给自己下碗面，还不忘加俩荷包蛋。如果要给美好的人生一个定义，那就是惬意。如果要给惬意一个定义，那就十三五知己，谈笑风生。
九、成年人的必修课之一：学会承认自己的错误，但放过自己，带着遗憾好好活下去。你要学会捂上自己的耳朵，不去听那些熙熙攘攘的声音，这个世界上没有不苦逼的人，真正能治愈自己的，只有你自己。
十、你的脸上云淡风轻，谁也不知道你的牙咬得有多紧。你走路带着风，谁也不知道你膝盖上仍有曾摔伤的淤青。你笑得没心没肺，没人知道你哭起来只能无声落泪。要让人觉得毫不费力，只能背后极其努力。
十一、不求与人相比，但求超越自己，要哭就哭出激动的泪水，要笑就笑出成长的性格！我是要有多勇敢，才敢一直对你念念不忘。我是要有多坚强，才能承受你的一伤再伤。
十二、多少句我爱你，最终变成了我爱过你。自从你做了我的心上人，此后风花雪月都不耐看，只有你年复一年的喜欢。
十三、生命太短，没有时间留给遗憾，若不是终点，请微笑一直向前。晚点遇见你，余生都是你。不是除了你，我就没人要了。只是除了你，我谁都不想要。
十四、人这一生需要用钱捍卫尊严的地方实在太多了，在你还没赚到足够令自己安心的钱之前，请多点努力少点矫情。风悄悄吹乱了年华，初次相遇便已定格视线。眼中的含情脉脉，对视半头，情已…
十五、刻薄嘴欠和幽默是两回事，口无遮拦和坦率是两回事，没有教养和随性是两回事，轻重不分和耿直是两回事。
